I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now and I feel like we've been growing apart. I don't know how to end it without hurting him, I still want him in my life but just not in that way..what should I do?
Believe in yourself Answer:
Ah its a difficult one but ask yourself this: are you sure you want to break up? Like have you tried talking to him about how you feel like your drifted apart, maybe he feels the same and doesn’t know how to get closer? Before making a decision that you could regret try talking to him about how you feel and ask why he isn’t either making as much of an effort or aren’t as close. However if you do think it is best for the relationship to come to an end invite him round to your house or somewhere private and say how you felt like you had grown apart but reassure them that you want them in your life still and that you just feel like you’re not ready to be in a relationship with him but maybe in the future (that could give him hope and make it easier or it could mistakly lead him on) tbh I am the worst person to get advice on this I just ramble about how amazing they are just that I don’t think its working… I hate breaking up with people haha sorry its so long and probably doesn’t help /: just speak from the heart :) hope it goes well!